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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate them too. So I don't write them.  I figure if a simple verbal "thank you" isn't enough, then the person who is giving the gift is expecting too much.[/quote]

I give less frequently to people who don't write thank you notes.  It takes, what, five minutes a note?[/quote]

[b]The rule is, if you thank them in person, no note is required. So let's clear that up.[/b]
And I am one of those people who would rather I don't receive a gift with strings attached in the first place. I NEVER give a gift and keep a mental tally of 'oh who has slacked on writing me that note and mailing it!'.

I do appreciate acknowledgement that a gift has been received, but a verbal, email, FB post, or IM 'hey thanks i got your gift' is enough for me.

And I argue with the 5 minutes a note. You have to find their address, find a stamp/envelope/card, write the note (which should be somewhat customized), and put it in the mailbox. For those of you who are perfectly organized and have quiet children, that might be easy for you. It's not so easy for me.[/quote]

That is absolutely not "the rule". The rule actually is, if someone is kind enough to give you a gift, you take the three minutes it takes to write - even a customized note! - and throw it in the mailbox. I am completely, disastrously unorganized, and my children are not quiet.

And to the OP whose hand cramps up: just buy bigger paper. I'm not sure if you're using those wee tiny little thank you notes from Hallmark, but you don't have to.[/quote]

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