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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. I ended up leaving for the night.

Honestly this feels like just one more thing in a long history of behavior showing he doesn’t really want marriage/kids/even a committed relationship. He says he does, but then makes it clear he still wants his independence, and it never feels like a real partnership. Like the dinner example, he stopped cooking for me and thinks we should just handle our own dinner separately. Or if he’s going out of town for a week and I can mention that I’d like to spend our last evening together, but he’ll start packing late in the day and take hours, so by the time he’s done it’s way past my bedtime. Which I don’t understand, I would have thought a guy would jump at the chance for sex before leaving.

[b]I was actually planning on separating because he flat out told me that he will always come first, not me or any children we have, but right after I found out I was pregnant. I don’t understand that attitude.[/b]

So this just feels like the straw that broke the camel’s back, it’s clear he just wants to live his life with me on the side as a convenience. [/quote]

I’m sorry. Him saying anything remotely like that should have been the straw. I would get out now and try to establish full custody before he gets shamed into signing up for 50% to not look like a deadbeat but then neglects the kids when he has them.

Get out now. Full stop. [/quote]

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