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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. I ended up leaving for the night.

Honestly this feels like just one more thing in a long history of behavior showing he doesn’t really want marriage/kids/even a committed relationship. He says he does, but then makes it clear he still wants his independence, and it never feels like a real partnership. Like the dinner example, he stopped cooking for me and thinks we should just handle our own dinner separately. Or if he’s going out of town for a week and I can mention that I’d like to spend our last evening together, but he’ll start packing late in the day and take hours, so by the time he’s done it’s way past my bedtime. Which I don’t understand, I would have thought a guy would jump at the chance for sex before leaving.

I was actually planning on separating because he flat out told me that he will always come first, not me or any children we have, but right after I found out I was pregnant. I don’t understand that attitude.

So this just feels like the straw that broke the camel’s back, it’s clear he just wants to live his life with me on the side as a convenience. [/quote]

Maybe he got tired of you complaining about  what he made for dinner?

And I don't know you could have stayed up past your bedtime?  You do realize once you have a baby your strict bedtime won't be ab;e to be observed anymore right? You go on about him being inflexible, but you've got your own stuff.

That is if you aren't making this all up,  which I have to say your last post sniffs like BS.[/quote]

I’ve never complained, I’m always appreciative. He just has excuses like “I don’t know what you like”. I’m not picky or anything.

I do stay up late for him. I prefer to be in bed by 9 but will stay up to 11-12. I’m not staying up until 2am, which is what he prefers. [b]I can’t function on 4 hours of sleep.[/b] Plus, it would be nice if he returned the favor and worked with my schedule once in awhile. [/quote]

Being a mom is going to be hard for you especially since you've decided you want to divorce your husband and be a single mom. Having someone whose cool with being at 2 am comes in real hndy with a newborn.[/quote]

That’s cute you think the husband will care about a 2am wake up. [/quote]

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