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Reply to "Pretty angry. Women I’m supposed to be going out with in 5 hours just texted me this."
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[quote=MaryamFamily]So, for some constructive advice... I am placing myself in the shoes of the date. Definitely have been in her shoes. I've gone on dates that were a waste of time because I liked someone else. Maybe being honest like this is a smart way to not waste anyone's time. And... if I were in your shoes and you really like this woman, this is what I'd do. I'd be calm, chill, and understanding. The literal worst thing you could do would have her hear or read you express these sentiments you shared here. Keep that to yourself and DCUM. Instead: act understanding. Let her know it's no problem, and thanks for letting you know. Let her know you're here for her when she's ready. If she's being honest, she literally may need some time. Could be she wants to give her ex one more shot. Could be she feels confused and after seeing her ex for what he is again, she realizes she really does want to and can move on. If she feels like you're understanding and you guys do have feelings for each other, surely she'd let you know if or when she's ready to move on from her ex.[/quote]
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