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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You and your therapist are working on making this relationship the right one because of your age and your desire for a family since you’re already 38. What you don’t seem to know is how to tell if the person you’re dating will be a good spouse to you after marriage and where to set boundaries for yourself. You need to know what the red flags are, what the non-negotiables are for you, and be willing to drop this guy if he’s not the right one. Suggest getting premarital counseling with him and see how willing he is to work on things with you now. If he’s willing to go and do the necessary work, that would be a good sign. If not, you’ll have your answer.[/quote] This is spot on. OP, if you were 25, your therapist would not tell you to marry this guy. You need to step back and take a good look at what is in front of you - not what you hope for, but what is actually in front of you. I would find a new (individual) therapist, myself.[/quote]
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