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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am you Op but I am the mom. In my 40’s my “way of doing things” stopped working as well and I finally went on medication for ADHD and it was only then that I could loom back and realize that nope I never managed quite as well as I thought I did and my way of doing things often were actually terrible 😅 I think it’s ok to make suggestions of things that worked but don’t be wedded to them. Yes seek out and follow therapists advice as well. Part of ADHD is getting stuck on the idea that you have the right answer and you know it’s right and you just can’t let go. It happens. And it is happening now. You are the dad. You know. Only you know. No one else can know as good as you. It’s an impulse thing. You can’t control the impulse to be rigid to this one idea. It’s too overwhelming to let go of. But in this case if you don’t you can hurt your DS. Maybe it’s time for you to get your own help.[/quote] Very insightful.[/quote]
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