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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. Do others’ husbands ask to do similar things when their wife is on maternity leave? Did I marry a jerk?[/quote] Other DH's do ask this. I have a friend whose DH went on a boys' trip when their first was 2 weeks. Then again, I think he's a jerk (not just for this reason). But she seems happy and had more kids with him, so I think it mostly matters how you feel about it. My DH went on a business trip for 2 weeks when I had a 2 month old. I was annoyed, but I didn't think he was a jerk. FWIW, depending on the reason (i.e. is it a milestone celebration for a close friend? a bachelor party?), I might be okay with this if he could arrange for a friend/relative to visit and/or line up paid help. But I think it's also reasonable not to be okay with this under any scenario. [/quote]
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