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[quote=Anonymous]OP, im curious: do you think you could honestly say that you sincerely want your wife to realize her full sexual potential, outside of how that would benefit you? Can you set aside your own desires and hope for your wife, for her own sake, that she can have the sex lift her heart truly desires? Not in a “there is a problem and let’s fix this way,” but in a “I love my spouse and I want what is best for you her” kind of way?

I am thinking about a romance novel I read a while back, and in it the main characters had several sexual encounters solely focused on the woman’s pleasure before they ever had sex. This was not at all a turn-on for me personally, but maybe it shows that a lot of women love the idea of being assured that their partners want the best for them sexually, as opposed to wondering if their sexual partners see them as an object there to meet their own sexual desires. Because men often do feel that way about women, sadly.

I obviously don’t know what is going on, maybe your wife truly, genuinely never wants an orgasm or sex again. But I think most people do want a good sex life, even if they have been a stranger to desire for a while. And if you look at the situation from the perspective of a spouse really and truly wanting his wife to be happy, I imagine you are more likely to have success.

Maybe a lot of this depends on how you feel about marriage. Is it transactional, about giving this for that, or is it about sometimes selfless love and connection? [/quote]

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