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[quote=Anonymous]T[quote]he depression rates of a gay person married to a straight person are *high*. Like, we are looking at despair. I am a former Mormon and the church used to encourage gay people to marry straight people to turn them straight. It resulted in terrible outcomes. I feel so badly for some of my friends, but they have all come out of it better. And their spouses are *all* on board. The spouses usually remain friends and they co parent well. Maybe there are exceptions but this is just what I have seen.

And it’s much easier to explain to a kid “I’m actually gay and shouldn’t really be married to a man” than it is “I found someone better to sleep with.” They are just fundamentally different.
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Wut?

Your post makes no sense.  Were you encouraged to marry a straight person to turn you straight?  Did your spouse know you were gay when you married?  How does this play into the DW in the prior post hiding her leaving from her DH so that she would be better off financially?

How do you know it is easier to explain this to a child?  Are you a child psychologist, or do you have any empirical proof that this is the case? No.  Then STFU.[/quote]

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