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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^Also, I completely agree with 12:20, especially about being rigid AF about sleep, dividing labor, and the career thing. Friends with one or two kids don’t understand why we put ours to bed early and are such freaks about sleep; with 3+ kids, you have to be. And if your spouse can’t handle caring solo for whatever number of children you have, FFS, don’t have another kid. I remember going to brunch with girlfriends when our second was a few months old and people were shocked: “where’s the baby?” Uh, with my husband? His father? He’s quite capable of keeping a toddler and a newborn alive and well for a few hours.[/quote] Yes to all of this. My husband puts all three to bed once a week when I do tennis and I do the same for him for cross fit. A partner who can’t manage the kids he made solo is not a partner. Is it harder and messier and less fun solo? Of course but we each do it sometimes so the other parent can recharge. [/quote]
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