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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. I suppose I'm torn between the "hard nopes" and the posters who wrote re: "conciliation/education". I do believe Aunt Becky wants to see the kids and it was her idea -- although I have no idea if she is holds racist views or has reformed in her older age. I recognize this is a petty feeling and probably below me, but I also want for some "consequences" to fall upon Aunt Becky (i.e., you were racist to me, so the price to pay for that is you cannot have a relationship with my family).[/quote] If she had reached out to you and your husband at some point with an apology, I'd perhaps consider it. But if not, and she just wants everyone to forget about it and meet the kids, no chance. [/quote] ^ Exactly. The onus is on her. When/if she is ready to be open and caring, you can be forgiving and learn to trust her again. Until then, you are denying the fact that you do not trust her. There is nothing wrong with that. [/quote]
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