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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going crazy with my family saying they want to come over and “help” with my newborn while my husband is working long hours. It is not helpful to hold the baby and take pictures so (1) I can’t nurse and then (2) expect me to sit there visiting with you. Either hold the baby and give her a bottle, change her if she needs it, etc so I can run around and do stuff (shower/laundry/dishes, pump, send work emails...whatever) or, I don’t know, run the dishwasher and take out the recycling while I sit with her. This is driving me absolutely insane. [/quote]

If I visit someone who has just had a baby, then it is to deliver a.meal.  I do not do your laundry, change a diaper, or wash dishes.  Also I only stay for five minutes because I do not care to hear about birth or even see baby.  You sound incredibly ungrateful.[/quote]

You sound like a peach. Though hopefully you make a decent casserole. [/quote]

A gouret cook and I deliver a full meal.  I just don't care about your labor and do not care if your kid cries all night.  I also do not care if you had no sleep for a month.  You chose to have a baby and these are the conquences! [/quote]

Why are you demanding to see the baby if you don’t give a hoot about how mom and baby are doing?[/quote]

Evidently, you cannot read as I sid that I have no desire to see the baby.  I bring the food so that the family has at least one decent meal.[/quote]

Evidently, you cannot write, as your posts are riddled with spelling errors. You still haven't explained why you are dropping food off to someone who you don't care about at all based on what you've mentioned in your posts (don't care about the baby or mom). Why should ANYONE be grateful for your crappy casserole? I bet it has cat hair in it.[/quote]

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