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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I tried to talk to my husband about sticking up for me when SIL is being rude and he said he isn't getting involved in drama and closed the door to play video games. :cry: [/quote] If he doesn't want to get involved in drama, than you don't either. And you don't spend time with SIL. Set a schedule you can manage with seeing her. Skip any gatherings that exceed the schedule and he goes alone.[/quote] Honestly this. If your sil is truly the narcissistic monster manipulating and controlling the entire family you won't win confronting her. She will turn it back on you and make you seem like a monster. Your best bet is to create your own limits of time spent and when you do spend time with them don't try to engage with her . Be boring flat and uninteresting. Ask her about herself let her talk all about herself.[/quote]
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