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[quote=Anonymous]If you were raised in a culture that tells you men always sexualize women and virtuous women don’t let them then that’s why you don’t feel comfortable in a bikini and are jealous of your husband for talking with other moms. OP, consider if talking to a therapist might help. The truth is it’s not a big deal here and everyone does it which takes away the context you have in your mind. I have family in a country where people go to the pool in rubber burkas and there a bikini would be a huge deal — simply wearing one is a declaration in a different way than here. I also trust my husband completely. If you have doubts that either means you are feeling insecure or he is giving you reasons to — only you know which is true.[/quote]
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