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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all the feedback. I am glad to know there are others who feel uncomfortable like me in a bikini.

I understand it is me who needs to change or adapt. I want to be just like other women who are in a bikini with a drink in one hand and can confidently chat with men. I grew up in a culture where this is just not the norm.

So my question I guess really is, if this something that women just grow into it and if so, there is some hope for me. In that case maybe if I try wearing a few times I might slowly get comfortable after a while.

DH is white and is supportive of me in whatever I am comfortable. It is just as likely I am imagining things when I said checking out other women. But it how I feel.

Thanks for putting up with my rant and all the helpful suggestions![/quote]

Why do you want to be like this?  What do you think is so special about these women?[/quote]

Both my kids just love being in water. I can see pool, beach, water parks, etc. being a big part of the next several years. [/quote]

The active moms are not wearing bikinis.  They are impractical for horsing around in the pool with your kids, dunking them, playing water basketball, swimming laps, diving, etc.  In my experience, most of the women wearing bikinis at the local pool are trying to tan, which is all fine and good.   It's just like regular clothes.  Different outfits for different activities. [/quote]

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