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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-Make the case to not congratulate this person. Explain why you wouldn’t. [/quote]

I’m the one who deserves the congrats lol.

I raised this to a mutual friend saying that I was hurt this ex friend didn’t even congratulate me, she said it was normal because we haven’t spoken.  Have not spoken for a year and a half.  Had been friends with ex friend for 20 years.[/quote]

Uh, there's a whole lot of NOPE in your post, OP. You "deserve the congrats" ugh no what a pompous attitude.

And how on earth does your ex friend know about your big success- you said you haven't spoken for a year and a half?? Lemme guess she just drifted away from you, and you have just absolutely no idea why! [/quote]

I’m sorry you’re right nobody deserves a congrats.  The scenario was I had a baby after multiple miscarriages and infertility.  Said ex friend knew about the scenario and we share many mutual friends all of whom know about the baby.  [b]The fallout occurred because I did multiple big favors for this friend who I also spoke to on a daily basis and she was essentially mean or unkind on multiple occasions.  We essentially stopped speaking when I tried communicating this and she turned it around on me.[/b][/quote]

So why, exactly, did you want or expect congratulations from this person?[/quote]

Oh my god because I knew her for 20 years and we were basically like family. Jesus people.  [/quote]
So what have you congratulated her for, acknowledged her for or expressed your condolences for her since your friendship breakup????
P.S.
If you want people to just agree with you then just say that from beginning.
Sheesh![/quote]

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