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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I am not blaming the parents, but I find it unfortunate. I also realize this is a cultural phenomenon. Many of my kids classmates are from Asia and there it is much more common to have children do extra classes after school. I am from Europe where tutoring isn't as widespread and is most commonly used when children struggle with a certain subject. While I believe there is a small minority of kids that love math so much they want to do extra in their free time, in my experience it is very often driven by parents. [/quote]

I don't find it unfortunate at all. A vibrant academic environment that teaches kids that learning is valued (and takes hard work!) is to be praised in my book.

Oh, and I'm from Europe too. And I grew up exposed to all sorts of academic competitions - many of my friends did math or physics olympiads, chess, and so on. And that required preparation outside school time. And it was integrated with play, etc, no big deal...

It's only in the US that if kids do extra music or sports or other extra-curriculars, it's praised, but if they do extra academic work, it's 'unfortunate'. Weird.  [/quote]
No, if kids’ parents are able to pay for any additional pricey extra-curriculars, including additional sports coaching and music lessons on top of music lessons, it’s frowned upon, or should be. So, you desperately want your child to stand out amongst the rest, so you do whatever it takes to make that happen. As long as your child is the best, or one of best. Your kid is nothing special, as a matter of fact, if every child received equal hours of tutoring or coaching, your kid would be average at best. I think you’re too afraid to admit this to yourself.[/quote]

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