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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spoiled and lazy are different things. 
My ex was so lazy he wouldn't bend down to put on his shoes. If he couldn't step into a shoe, he wouldn't go out. He'd simply not eat because he was too lazy to cook. If I cooked for him, and if I asked him to do the dishes (he'd do nothing without being asked), he'd wash the exact items that he used. After awhile, he stopped eating when I cooked because he didn't want to do even that. His idea of sex is lying on his back and telling his partner to hop on.

He wasn't spoiled at all though. Grew up very poor in Latin America and had a rough, traumatic childhood. He's done well financially but is a very angry person. [/quote]

I think anger and deprivation has a TON to do with it - resulting in control issues.  MIL grew up poor and has tremendous issues around food (feels shameful for ever having leftovers, and will only order half a plate) and messes (pretends they don't exist), etc. It is kind of fascinating how different people handle poverty.  In MIL's case, I am fairly sure there was abuse, too - made to feel useless, and treated that way. In a way it is sad, but grown adults need professional help to learn that they can't try to inflict their pain and issues on other people. [/quote]

Also can't be bothered unless it is "her idea"; and the one time DH asked her to watch the kids (she is local) - I precooked a fresh lasagna, fresh chicken and veggies, dish, and one other dish (can't recall now) and she couldn't be bothered to heat anything up in the microwave for the kids. Also, couldn't be bothered to open the door for the dogs to go out (we have a fence, so it is literally just opening the door). Television first, all else second. Very strange way to live.  [/quote]

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