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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Learn to let it go and work on your own inner child wounding and how to self-validate from an internal versus an external focus. Part of the reason this is so triggering to hear how others perceive the narcissistic parent is because it reminds the inner child of the times it was wronged. As you work on self it will actually trigger you less and less. To the point where there is actually acceptance and understanding of a perspective that sees your parents as great. This is the true experience of others and it doesn’t negate your experience, it is just different. Different people can have different experiences of an individual. [b]Your experience is valid and you don’t need other agreement or validity to have it. Also, you do not need other seemingly contradictory experiences to be invalid for yours to be valid.[/b] I hope this makes sense. I understand where you are coming from. I am doing and have done much of the same work myself.[b] You want to be free to really move on. The power lies within you[/b], not with others. [/quote] YES! So well said. This 1000%![/quote] +1 Exactly this. [/quote]
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