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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not the Op but I have similar standards. The issue when you are a financially successful woman is that I want an equal.  If I want to go to the Bahamas for the long weekend. I want my partner to be able to do the same.  If I want to go to NYC for the weekend, again I want someone to do those things with.  I don’t expect anyone to pay for me and I don’t want to pay for anyone else.  If you can’t afford to go, I’m still going.  Guys I’ve dated have gotten pissy that I’m not willing to pay their way.

I don’t want anymore kids either.  That requirement gets easier to meet as you get older.  OP, I didn’t date anyone for the last 7 yrs.  I focused on my kids and my career.  I’m 50 now.  I recently started dating a man with 2 grown, out of college kids.  He’s financially secure, doesn’t want more kids, and is 6’4.  They’re out there but you may have to wait.

Don’t lower your standards but also don’t expect to strike gold right away.  While you wait, focus on you and your kids.  [/quote]

DP.

Agree - it is normal for a successful, high earning woman to expect her partner to earn as well or better the she does.

Why would any woman accept, let alone respect, a low income guy? [/quote]

It is also normal for a successful, high earning woman with that set of expectations to be single, since none of the men she thinks are qualified to be with her want to be. But if your expectations price you out of the market, of course that's your choice. [/quote]

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