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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this a thread for all of the scorned APs who didn’t get the happy ending and got dumped?  Now they want to out their ex-AP?

Or for APs hoping the wife recognizes a description and it causes his marriage to blow up do she can act innocent and welcome him with open arms?[/quote]

The wives usually suspect and most don't care.  Outing these men will not destroy their marriages as most wives have their good reasons for staying with a spouse they suspect or know cheats.  For that matter,, most affair partners know they have been used and do not want a future with such a person.  But outing these men may serve the purpose of bringing some social stigma to bear upon them and thus cause them to reconsider their bad behavior going forward.  I am all for that social change.[/quote]

Well a huge portion of these women are married too.  So how exactly do they have no blame and won’t suffer the same social stigma.  And society judges mothers/wives much harsher.  The fallout from doing this will be greater for them —and the slut, whore, home wrecker labels to boot.[/quote]

That is an evaluation that every woman has to undertake for herself, is it worth the fallout and risk to her own reputation to reveal the details of an extramarital affair.  That fear is what has likely kept married figures like Harvey Weinstein or Bill Gates safely cocooned from their sexual peccadilloes.[/quote]

It’s the premise of nasty affair website Ashley Madison.  Both married affair partners have something to lose if it’s found out.  Unlike with a single affair partner.  The disaster is that it causes two families to fall apart and two divorces, f@@cked up kids.  But, nobody ever said cheaters were smart or selfless people.  Idiots.[/quote]

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