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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP—You need to separate out your feelings about her parenting style and simply focus on this as a business relationship. It’s not working for you and you need to end it. You don’t need to justify it by hashing out all the ways this mom doesn’t do things the way you would. It’s irrelevant. “Sally, this arrangement isn’t working anymore, and I need to give 2 weeks notice. This is more challenging than I anticipated. Friday, May 21 will be the last day I can watch Larlo.” Be clear with her. Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind. The more you say, the more muddled you sound. Accept that this will be uncomfortable. Accept that she might not be happy about it or that things may cool off between you. That’s okay. Do it today. Good luck! [/quote] This. Clear and simple. Two weeks is reasonable. Friendship may change, so prepare for that. Keep your boundaries for self and family. Good luck. [/quote]
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