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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When does the "not so good kid" finally get to the point where their parent stops paying for club soccer? When the roster expands and the number of teams shrinks? When middle and high school sports take affect? Our team has a couple kids who just aren't at the same level and the coach gives them equal playing time (as he should). [/quote] It doesn't make sense to me. I'm glad kids are playing sports but why is every kid in travel? We have a handful of unskilled, slow, overweight kids who should be playing rec. It's pretty obvious that they're terrible but parents insist on continuing travel. They'd be well positioned and sufficiently challenged in a lower league so why bring the whole team down? [/quote] They're not bringing the whole team down. Without them, there wouldn't be a team. The "better" kids on this team couldn't make the next team up so they play on this team which needs a full roster so it can play games. [quote]The biggest issue now is that you cannot say that some kids are better than others, or that another kids sucks. [/quote] Of course you can say this, as you always could. And it is just as rude to do so as it always was. [quote] Parents, if your kid has man boobs, sports might not be for him. Your kid might not be good at soccer but could be great at programming, violin, languages, debate or a myriad of other things. I don't understand why we need to insist that all kids are good at all things. They're not and we should be honest about it. [/quote] Nobody's insisting anything. Kids who want to play go to tryouts and are put on a team based on their ability. If your kid wasn't good enough to get on a team with better teammates that's not the fault of other kids who want to play. [/quote]
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