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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean... can you just refuse to let him take credit? [/quote]

My spouse has aspergers and rarely knows what’s even going on but they love to take credit with the kids, grandparents.

After trying to get him involved- he wouldn’t, or show him what to do-he wouldn’t do it close to correctly, I now just let him regurgitate what I already said or did or “take credit.”  Once the kids were in first grade they saw through it and often laugh. One set of grandparents laughs as well and shakes their head - and knows it’s better than his anger explosions or fixing the mistake or setting the facts straight. And his own parents, who do the same BS and exaggerations yet can’t follow a conversation believe everything he says hook, line and sinker and think he’s a God. However sometimes his mom says amazed comments on how he never used to be able to do all these things or be so busy or organized. Ha! What a jokester!

Net net- can you make some internal laughs out of this instead of going down the anger track? 
Obviously don’t really give real responsibilities to him( if he fails those), but just smile and chuckle. You know the truth.

Bye if this is a work situation start documenting and CCing everyone on your work. Don’t smile and laugh, go to the mat on that Bs. [/quote]

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