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[quote=Anonymous]Op I went to counseling thinking my dh would get creamed but the therapist actually found that I was intervening in his parenting way too much, and unless I thought there was abuse going on I really needed to let them hash it out. He was right I was undermining him as a dad because it’s not the way I would have handled things. Your kid does need a relationship with their dad. Once I stopped undermining his parenting, his anger towards me disappeared. No idea if that is similar to you but sometimes we have more power than we think. I still struggle with dh’s personality quirks which sometimes alienates me or our friends, but our coparenting tension reduction has made a huge difference. I appreciate the Eva mendes book rec someone posted I will check that out. Good luck. [/quote]
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