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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Financial damage Kids being really angry and upset (don't count on "resilience") Losing half your time with your grandchildren, forever Kids having a harder time caring for you and your ex separately when you are really old Ex having more kids with new wife and ignoring your kids and not being able to afford his share of your kids' costs Unhelpful help from in-laws is really not that bad compared to how bad these things can get. [/quote] This list is only some people’s experience. Mine is not like this. 1. There is some financial loss. It is not massive damage. I worked the entire marriage. The loss there is is worth it. 2. I could care less if I have grandchildren or not. I do not like holidays. He can have them. 3. Kids are fine. There is adjustment. There are worse things than divorce (my childhood was much much worse with married parents with serious issues) 4. My ex nor I are not remarrying. No need. In our 40s. 5. We never had help from in laws. We do not like each other’s family. Divorce is fantastic in this regard. I no longer have to see them. Yay! [/quote] That sounds miserable. [/quote] This is my divorce. It is a lot happier than my marriage. I do not appreciate your comment.[/quote]
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