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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a five figure salary do gooder job and live in a one bedroom apartment, but have a net worth of around eight million due to family money left to me in trust. I have about a million extra that is not in trust.

I was once dating a divorced dad with a few teenage kids. He mentioned, when he was breaking up with me, that he didn’t make a lot of money (that is how he phrased it - my guess based on his job would be maybe 150k to 200k) and had three kids to put through college. That was one of the things he listed as being a reason to break up with me - he seemed to be implying that I didn’t make enough money. He didn’t know about the family money. I was so in shock that he would actually complain about someone’s salary in a break up convo that I didn’t say anything. But basically I have millions of dollars and one of the reasons he dumped me was that he thought I didn’t make or have enough money. I wouldn’t want someone to decide to date me or not date me on the size of my trust fund, which is another reason I didn’t speak up. But...yeah. That guy, at least seemed bothered that I didn’t have enough money.

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I actually don’t think this is terrible. It sounds responsible. [/quote]

+1. OP, he thought he would have to support you based on your salary, and he couldn't afford to do that because he owed it to his kids to support them. It's naïve to think that a potential partner's financial picture shouldn't matter.[/quote]

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