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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] PP, find your voice, and express yourself with confidence. You don’t have to be dramatic, or have ill will. Liken yourself to a dam, establishing a solid security measure when the demands of others seek to overtake you. Hold the door, and define your boundary, it can be in a very quiet whisper, a silently loving look - or a clear direct expression. Even something as simple as: “I disagree.” And nothing more. Start with that. We should only be held captive to the authority we choose to submit to.eventually, you may be able to redirect the energy of this symbolic dam in a way that gives light to others. Don’t reduce the power just redirect and don’t be afraid to be yourself. If you cannot to this — untangle yourself completely, and then reassess your capacity. Also read up on codependency. It can happen in friendships. One friendship we were codependents!! But we grew out of it together, isn’t that something? I wish the best for you. .[/quote] PP here. Thank you so much for the thoughtful response to my late night rant (welp!). This question really got me riled up because it is something that has been bothering me for a while and you're absolutely right about setting boundaries and untangling. [/quote]
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