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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She didn't say accepting a divorce with dignity leads to domestic violence. She said a focus on privacy in our society leads to domestic violence and child abuse. [/quote]

It leads to emotional abuse. Keeping silent and suffering and the abuser counting on you never telling anyone.  That’s emotional abuse.  The gaslighting and the lies.[/quote]

Okay I agree silence can lead to abuse - because you internalize problems in your marriage and don't speak out. But how does screaming about a former spouse after they've already left help matters? He's not abusing her - he left her. That's not a crime. [/quote]

If you think the abuse ends when the marriage ends, you don’t understand abusers, especially verbal and emotional abusers. We are linked to these people forever through our kids and so the abuse continues. [/quote]

Separation abuse is real.  The child becomes a power tool pawn to the narc abuser.[/quote]

Considering the mother is mentally traumatizing her daughter/children from day one of the separation I'd say there are narc abusers on both sides.[/quote]

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