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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes. I was married to someone like you, OP - we *could* afford the things that were important to me, but he didn’t see the value in them and either said no or argued with me every step of the way. It ended in divorce.

Her values and wants are just as important as yours. If you can afford it and it makes her happy, let it go. Work with her to help her vision come true. If you always place your priorities above hers, it’s not going to end well for you. [/quote]

OP here. She gets everything she wants. I never tell her she can’t get anything she wants. This is really the only time. We found two condos we liked and we went with her choice. I was happy with both but she wanted this one because it had an elevator. I didn’t care about the carpet she did. I didn’t mind the gray paint but she wanted a lighter gray so we painted. She is changing this condo to the other one. Same hardware, same light fixtures, and same backsplash. We could have gone with the other one instead of doing all of this. [/quote]

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