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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH above. What are your two incomes, how much did you put down, how much are you saving for retirement each month, what’s the balance in there now? And what’s the childcare plan?[/quote]

OP here. We are finically stable and have the money to spend. [b]I just don’t think it’s necessary to spend that money on something that won’t add any value to the condo.[/b] [/quote]

The value is in the peace of mind she (and you!) will gain if she creates a space that's comfortable for her. If you have the money, which it sounds like you do, and she's not a frivolous spender, what's another $2k to continue with cosmetic adjustments? (You didn't NEED hardwood floors...)  You're scared of something deeper here, and should do some soul searching to determine what that might be as you prepare to bring a new human into your life.[/quote]

Not OP but I would change to hardwood floors. Only two rooms with carpet sounds weird and I don’t want carpet that was there when someone else lived in the home. [/quote]

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