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Why do people who are not being asked for a response chime in on these threads? The OP specifically asked for the views of [i]those who have 3 or more children[/i]. She did not ask people who have 2 to post why they chose not to have any more children. I don't mean to be snarky, I know these two posters were being sincere, and it would have been appropriate on a thread titled "Thinking of having a third child" or "Should we stop at 2?", but is not appropriate here.[/quote]

Agree with you.  It never ceases to amaze me how many parents of 2 come on these threads and speak poorly of their "friends" who have 3 kids or how they just couldn't pay enough one on one attention if they had three (implying that those of us with 3 or more aren't spending quality time with each kid).

It just seems so weird that they care how many kids other people have or want.  Like they need to somehow justify their own choices by criticizing other people's.[/quote]

I'm not reading into these posters the same way you are.  Maybe you are insecure about your choices, which makes you defensive and paranoid?[/quote]

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