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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have a brother, but your guys are full of BS. You don't care if your DH has a relationship with his sister or parents? Yes, that is exactly right, but the point is that you are fine with him not having much contact with them. If he does have it, all hell breaks loose.
You become the SIL that you hate. You can deny it all you want, but it is the truth. When was the last time we had a thread that said, "DH and his sister have a great relationship! He gets together with her once a week! I am so happy for him."
So, yes, you all don't care if he doesn't have a relationship. God forbid he went to fix her car, on vacation with her, you are as green as a frog in that case![/quote]

My husband does an activity with one of his siblings once a week and I think it’s great that they have a close relationship (I say “say hi to Larla for me!” Ahead is that weekly engagement but otherwise don’t have a role) he Very Rarely (3x year?) calls the other sibling.  I assume that reflects the relationship he wants with each sibling— which seems reasonable since the one he rarely deals with is chaotic person.  But they aren’t my job, they’re his, and he seems to have made choices about what degree of relationship he wants from each.[/quote]

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