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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I’m one at 40 and yes even I’ll tell you that in western society it’s weird. For me - religion. For those who say religious ppl all marry at 22, sure but like every population some don’t find a partner. For me I’m also of a culture where parents picking out the spouse/influencing choice of spouse heavily was a thing (not true arrangement but not far off). I wasn’t into that. Wanted to go off to college, b school, make a ton of money etc so I did that. I had some faith but wasn’t truly religious. Time ticked by, didn’t find a partner. By age 33 got really religious and now I can’t see being with anyone outside my faith - where most men were taken by like 28. So yeah it’s weird but that’s what it is for me.[/quote]

Your case is different and very understandable. Any guy that is suitable to you will expect you to either be a virgin or long time celibate.   FWIW, I know a couple of women that were in your situation and got married in their 40s, within the faith.   The guys were either divorced (relatively rare, but it does happen) or found faith later in life, sometimes both.

But for someone who has no restrictions of faith, staying a virgin for so long means there are issues.   [/quote]

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