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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you were what were you asked and what answers did you give? Im finding people incredulous because I'm attractive and have a job or judgemental.[/quote]

It is weird and that's why I kept that info to myself.

And assuming I would have been honest because I knew no one would ridicule me or make me feel bad:

Religious but not to the point where it's imperative I wait until marriage.

I would say that I (unintentionally) give off lesbian vibes plus I take after my dad in the looks department. And it really doesn't bother me too much and I don't feel the need to change or conform to gender stereotypes.

I'm introverted.

I don't drink (hate the taste), or dance (I can barely walk without falling), and have anxiety when meeting new people. I hate waking up/being tired (probably close to a phobia if there is one). So no social life.

I was super sad when AIM (aol instant messenger) was discontinued. None of my friends were on Facebook so I never got into meeting and talking to people online (until recently).

I lived with my parents after graduating college because it was free and they were super cool parents.

Inability to articulate and describe how I fit in the world. Most guys want the sexy girl in high heels. I'm not that. I can't be that. I don't want to be that.

These movements with transgender, non-binary, etc have really helped me define myself and feel more confident with who I am (Straight "Butch" female) and about dating because ...gasp... some guys are into that.

My advice: Just do what you f*ck*ng want. If you want a sexual relationship put yourself out there. If you don't, go find a special toy and go to town. If you're scared, find a therapist. If you're not ready or don't want to or don't care, just keep living your life.

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