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[quote=Anonymous]Didn't rush them out of imaginary play, whether it be American Girl dolls, legos, playmobil etc.

No social media before age 13 hard stop. Some don't believe in it even at 13 but I want them to learn how to use it when they are with me.

No pressure on dating.

15 minutes minimum uninterrupted one-on-one time each day with me, longer is fine but 15 covers a LOT.

No screens in the car for normal around-town driving (road trips are major screen time). This isn't to judge screen time but because it's a lost opportunity for you to listen. Pre-covid that sometimes meant listening to my kids interacting with their friends, now it is more of a chance to hear whatever is on their mind.

Family activities--board games, movie night, video games... whatever you can do all together as a group. Because if you aren't creating those pockets of time their social media and friends will take it.

Sometimes realizing that the more angry/sulky/obnoxious they are, the more it means they need you. It's not a good time to tune out or be distant with them. Don't forget to hug them and tell them you love them. It's okay if they roll their eyes, they still need to hear it.
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