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[quote=Anonymous]I have 3 kids, a c-suite job, and my dh is a big law partner.  I also spend 5 hours every week day with my kids and every minute of the weekend.  All I do is work and spend time with my family - bc I love my job and spending time with my family.  I outsource every chore I can do all my time can be focused on the two things I love.

And yes I have lots of nanny help but that doesn’t mean Im not spending time with my kids at the same time.  It means that I can focus on each kid some of the time(eg nanny is home for baby’s nap sat morning while DH and I are out with big kids) or have someone cooking dinner while I play with the kids vs having the stress of trying to cook with 3 little kids on me.

I would not have had 3 kids if I couldn’t afford the help bc I wouldn’t want my 52 hours a week with my kids (yes I count them) to be full of stress and trying to multitask all the time.

Maybe my kids will be spoiled bc they never see me cleaning toilets or maybe they will see that dh and I work our butts off in our paid work - I don’t know but I’m not wasting too much sleep over it given they see us contributing and working overall. I’ll make sure they know how to clean a toilet before going to college and they have chores at home now.

It’s fine if you don’t want to live this way, it’s also weird but fine if you don’t think 50+ hours a week is enough parent time for kids and dh or I should stay home instead. But to say we don’t see our kids is absurd and that’s true of all the families like mine I know - like our work lives, we are type A and we have clear goals and metrics for our personal lives and don’t let things slip [/quote]

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