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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. This is exactly as it went down.

1. Alarm went off. As I’m fumbling in the dark to turn it off, spouse is telling me to shut that f**king thing off. I hit the snooze button and then completely turn it off (or so I thought).

2. Seven minutes later, it goes off again. Since it is already in my hands i turn it off. Spouse then starts violently kicking me - not nudging me to turn off the alarm - and saying “get the f**k out of my bed, calling me a thoughtless a**hole, etc. I grab her ankle to stop her kicking and squeeze hard to sens the message she needs to stop - at which point się says I’m hurting her. I let go, get up and start getting dressed to get out. As I lift up my head, I’m hit directly below my left eye by a hard object that turns out to be an alarm clock deliberately thrown at me as hard as she could throw it, drawing blood.

3. I said again I was sorry the alarm went off, but that does not justify your kicking and throwing the alarm clock, to which they respond my letting it go off in the first was “aggression.”

4. My spouse has serious anger and temper problems. She was almost arrested a few years ago for a road race incident, but I kept her out of jail.

5. It’s going to take me a week or do to leave. [/quote]

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