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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Re: if kicking is abusive, I’m just not sure OP is a reliable narrator here. Very normal when a spouse gently “kicks” to alert the other spouse that their alarm is going off. OP is clearly the person ignoring the alarm and wants to build a case that this is abuse but I sure wouldn’t want to tell a family court judge that the abuse started with alarm clock kick-nudges. [/quote]

That's actually not normal at all. If you want to wake someone up, you lightly tap them on the shoulder, you say their name, you don't kick them. This isn't how most people live.[/quote]

NP here. Nope. You don't get he nice wake  up when you allow your alarm to go off and do nothing about it, you get nudged with the foot, or the pillow. I'm not fully waking up to coddle you because you don't want to deal with your alarm and think I should. I'm not your mom.[/quote]

You sound like an angry, violent human being. "Allowing your alarm to go off" is normal human behavior. It taking time to deal with that is normal human behavior. I pray you're not married, or that your violence doesn't escalate.[/quote]

Nope. I hear my alarm I shut if Off. My spouse does the same thing. WE are not selfish. You lose the right to allow your alarm to blare for minutes on end when you decide to share your room/bed with someone. If you don't want to get up as soon as your alarm goes off use a different type of alarm system, one that vibrates, headphones, etc . Stop expecting your spouse to just deal with your alarm waking them up every day and expecting snuggles for it. Grow up![/quote]

"Grow up and start hitting people when they annoy you!" Yeah that's not abuser talk. "React immediately or face my wrath!" You're dangerous.

And no one sleeps in headphones, what are you on?[/quote]

I was totally right about you. Immature and need to grow up you want to argue with anyone and everyone and have things totally your way toxic  and need to seek help.

You're wasting your time arguing with me you need to be calling 911, getting set up with a shelter and a divorce attorney.[/quote]

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