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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, yeah, I get it. My DH has turned down sex once and that hurt me. But your DH was rude. It is unusual for men to turn down a naked woman. But, he could have been tired. Exhausted. When was the last time you had sex? Have you turned him down a lot? Is he seeing anybody else? Emotional affair? [/quote]

OP here. Well, to be fair he had a very long busy work day yesterday and was writing for his work late into the night. So I believe he was exhausted. I just woke up horny and thought a quicky and going back to sleep would be fun for him. But alas! Not only was I turned down but so cruelly. [/quote]

OP you need to use your brain a little more in these interactions.  DH would have hollered too; so would I; no one wants to be woken up.  And he stayed up late too!  And you knew it!

Your life isn’t a soap opera show where people leap up to have sex at every opportunity.  Now you know he’s not a morning sex kind of guy so don’t do it again.[/quote]
+1

I don't think he was rude until you kept pushing and pushing.  He said he was sleepy (and you knew he had been up late and was probably really tired), you kept pushing, he said stop, you kept pushing . . . not cool.  Swap the genders and tell me people wouldn't be screaming that he was in the wrong.  [/quote]

OP here. What do you do if you want sex and your spouse always turns you down?[/quote]

OP I am the first pp responding to you and actually I am precisely in your situation.  I am a high libido wife and DH won’t do it if he is tired or grumpy or hungry or the moon is in its first phase.  When we were younger and had fewer responsibilities we had sex a lot more often but now we are both sort of busy and tired and that’s it.  There is nothing wrong with him and there is nothing wrong with me.  Have you talked it out with DH?  Have you told him how much you miss him?  Was he always like this?

If this is a problem you need to find another way to solve it but you don’t need to treat it as a major crisis because sexual desire discrepancy is common in adults.  It’s not such a huge deal unless there is an underlying health condition.[/quote]

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