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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those that terminated third pregnancy, how did you come to the decision?  Specifically would love to her from people who thought they wanted another and then changed their mind when they were pregnant?
This may just be a recurrent of PPA that I dealt with after both kids, but even so, I’m not sure I can handle these feelings again. [/quote]

NP and I just scheduled an appointment to terminate my 3rd.  I'm sure i would love the child if it was here, but i'm also sure i'm already running on low and i'd be an exhausted, short tempered mom with another child.  it became apparent when just morning sickness made me such a worse mom and a 3rd would definitely break my marriage b/c it became clear my husband is unable or unwilling to take on more.

I am going to one of the private ultrasound places first to take a look and have a little time to think about it and be sure.  I live in a place with an entirely unnecessary law that you have to take the first pill in the clinic (hoping that women will freak out and then not want to make another appointment) so i want to be sure when i go in.

just sharing that you're not alone.  in my research on this i found that 60% of women who seek an abortion already have children and that 99% of women don't regret their abortion 5 years later.  so that's a whole lot of moms that terminated an additional pregnancy and are at peace with that decision [/quote]

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