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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. How can my husband help me in this? He doesn’t want to discuss anything and just wants to move on. He shuts me out and ignores my pleas for a discussion. [/quote] [b]OP, he doesn't want to "move on". He wants to take zero responsibility for his behavior and zero responsibility for repairing the relationship he broke. [u]You cannot heal in a marriage like that. Nor should you want to. He is literally giving you no evidence that your feelings matter, that he has regret, or that he won't do it again. [/u] At the bear minimum he should want to go to counseling with you. If he refuses, you should go for yourself. Hopefully through that counseling you will discover why you would want to stay with someone who has so little regard for you. Good luck, OP.[/b][/quote] + 💯 (And yes, EMDR will help either way so please make the investment with a good specialist)[/quote]
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