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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Of course I’m pregnant. Ugh. For the people who terminated, did you ever go on to want more kids? The component I left out of the original post is that my marriage is shaky. My husband has some substance issues that he refuses to acknowledge. He says he is excited, but I’m so scared to be in that vulnerable Place (pregnancy, post partum, infant hood) with him. I’m scared I won’t be able to handle it and that he will go off the deep end, which my current children don’t deserve. [/quote] In your shoes (at least with the info you said here) I'd terminate. You may or may not end up wanting more kids down the road, but even if you end up wanting them and not being able to have them, I don't think you'll regret protecting your family and not having one in this situation. Wish things had been different maybe and feel wistful about that, but not regret the decision given the circumstances[/quote]
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