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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You call it quits when you have thought through everything and made your plan for finances, work, and how you will do everything as a single parent. It sounds like time for you to take a hard line with your DH. Offer him the opportunity to do online counseling and tell him you are no longer willing to carry everything. Then stop carrying it. Stop waking him up. Stop doing anything for him. Stop doing things that are important to him and not you. Cut things out of your life to make it simpler, and start hiring things out. Basically live like a single person with kids because that is your plan in the long run.[/quote] But he’s a net detractor and a liability. He’d love to sleep all day, toss clothes all over the bedroom, and eat/snack all days and leave the crumbs to prove it. What does Op or the toddlers do with all his selfish messes? [/quote]
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