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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to get married so bad. I want someone to build a family with and have that happily ever after. I don't see myself alone. Here's the thing...

I think I'm asexual. I've never had ANY interest in sex. I don't think I have any hormonal issues. I loooove cutesy romantic stuff - holding hands, gifts, etc. - but sex? No. Couldn't care less.

So...how do I date? Can I get married? I hate saying this but the other asexual people I know are a bit ...odd. Like personality/interest wise I can't see us being compatible.

What do you think?[/quote]
I think that it's pretty sad that you want to get married so bad - to do what exactly? Buy a house with someone and stuff your money away in a retirement fund?
I understand -- barely, though -- not getting any sexual urges; to each their own. But why you want to get married, of all things, to not have sex is beyond me.

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NP here, and I’ve known more than a few young people (men and women) who see getting married as another box to check, along with graduate from college and get a job. It’s less about the person and more about the paper, and very much an overachiever thing. I can’t speak for OP, so I’ll ask — OP, do you feel like being married is something you HAVE to do and you like the idea of it?[/quote]
I think some women have the same attitude about their wedding. It has to be huge, a big production, perfect. They are more concerned with the actual wedding than the relationship.[/quote]

Absolutely. It’s their day to be a star and have all eyes on them. Plus THINK of the Instagram likes![/quote]

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