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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you haven't dated I don't think you're asexual. You just haven't found someone you're attracted to and I believe you will and that could be a man or woman. I'm older than you and a virgin too. It just takes the right person to turn you on. Find what turns you on and go from there.[/quote]

I was going to say this.  The right person may change how you feel about sex.[/quote]

I think this is possible. I lost my virginity at 24. I wasn't asexual, just picky - didn't manage to meet and actually date someone I was even attracted to enough to be interested until then.

[b]I honestly think a lot of the messaging women get about giving men a chance, getting to know them to see if our attraction grows, not being shallow and judging by looks, etc., doesn't help[/b]. Several of my friends who were much less comfortable than me with being single wound up dating multiple guys they were not physically attracted to because they thought it was "bad" to reject people for that reason. What a freaking waste if everyone's time!

That said, some people DO know, and if OP thinks she may be asexual it might be worth exploring that community a bit. A lot of people with non-standard sexualities hear a lot of "you just haven't met the right person yet." Not always true.[/quote]

+1,000,000

I’ve never, ever heard anyone tell a man, “yeah, she’s ugly and has zero personality, but give her a CHANCE! Maybe you’ll find you LIKE her!”[/quote]

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