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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  I believe you OP.  Your self description may be accurate,
but I want to mention the possibility that you may be wrong about yourself.

I dated a couple of women who had essentially no experience with orgasms before they met me, which in both cases was years after college.  One of them had literally never had an orgasm and another had experienced what I gather were pretty small ones, and only when she was alone.  Both had been sexual with men and vaguely enjoyed the companionship and some happy feelings about pleasing the men, but that was pretty much all they enjoyed.  You could say I had a softer touch and was more attuned to their needs than their prior boyfriends had been and even they themselves had been.  They ended up becoming almost insatiable.  They couldn't believe what they had been missing.

I have no idea how often that kind of lack of self awareness happens.

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Please call me[/quote]

Or at least share your secrets.  -Guy[/quote]

It isn't really possible to call someone on DCUM, is it?

Anyway, my "secrets" are pretty simple and aren't secret.  Be admiring.  Be respectful.  Pay very close attention.  Slow down.  Be gentle when she wants gentle, be rougher when she wants rougher.  When I say you should do what she "wants," I mean pay very close attention to how she responds to what you're doing physically, now just what she says to you.  Women who have never enjoyed sex very much may not have a lot to say and may not know enough about their own bodies to give you directions.  So with those women, it's up to you--the confident, knowledgeable, competent man--to figure it out.

Some women don't like my slow approach very much.  They want a more aggressive man who knows what he wants and seizes it.  But for the women who have a hard time getting comfortable with sex, my approach usually works better (as long as you know what you're doing).

And, sadly, some women just do not like sex very much.  OP may be one of those.  Or maybe not.

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