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[quote=Anonymous]Yep, I know a young mom who lost her kids - totally lost them - to foster care after becoming homeless after leaving an abusive relationship. Family shelter had no beds and referred her to women’s shelter. Women’s shelter said the only option would be a temporary stay for her children in foster care until a family unit would become available. And then she was in the system. The social worker took an immediate dislike to her. Had no sympathy about the abuse situation because the man was not the father of the children, and told the mom she was culpable for abuse and neglect by putting kids in a household with an abusive person. She started ordering supervised visits which my friend had to pay for, the ordered her to attend some kind of group therapy for substance abusing mothers, and when she protested and said it didn’t apply to her, that was another ding against her. It was one thing after another. So many hoops to jump. The bar kept getting higher. And then she was in a Trap they wouldnt return the children to her until she had a family unit, but she couldn’t get a family unit when the children were not living with her. She was caught in a catch-22. Months and months went by. Eventually the kids hated coming to see her...it was only for 90 minutes one day a week, awkwardly, supervised. It never opened.[/quote]
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