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[quote=Anonymous]NP here.

OP, I left a lying, manipulative loser when I was 35. He wasa  charismatic, very smart, but very messed up man whom I was quite emotionally attached to, but whom I also never trusted implicitly. Part of the messed up attraction of the relationship was the passion generated by so much uncertainly. Finally, htough i was sick of never knowing the truth, and found too much evidence that he was lying about a lot of things (not just other women). I left him. Of course I was scared I would never get married, have kids, etc. It was scary to be alone at that age.

But, I am now 41, married to a great man, with a wonderful toddler and a baby on the way. Spent a year or so in therapy, a year dating carefully--really nice guys, no one who seemed in the least shady or would have problems with a committed, honest relationship. Met DH at 37, married (and pregnant at our wedding!) less than 2 years later....he is such an amazing man in so many ways. Not rich, not super handsome, but a true partner whom I trust 100 percent. Its amazing to me that I had put up with such terrible behavior for so long. Its like night and day.

You deserve better. 
leave
leave 
LEAVE!

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