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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No kids, no comingled money, he's broke, he's a liar and a cheat?  I say this with total honesty from my perspective as a cheated-on-twice mom of 3 kids who wasted 10 years with an asshole before I left him for cheating with his ex-wife (!) -- -

You seriously got a 'Get out of jail free' card.  You sound young, and remember the dating adage:  Many shoes fit the same foot.  You absolutely can love more than one person!!  You will find love again and with some professional help to fine tune your standards and learn how to spot the losers, you will undoubtedly do better than this jerk.

I know how you feel about divorce ruining your plans for TTC - - that's why I married the jerk in the first place.  But it's so much worse now being hog-tied to an asshole with whom I must co-parent for the rest of my life!  My kids' graduations, proms, marriages, grandkids, holidays, everything - - will always have him in them somehow.  The full depressing weight of that sometimes still takes my breath away.  You can ESCAPE, free and clear and never have to see this man again.

Go, work on improving your jerk radar, define what you want in a relationship, and go confidently forward knowing that one day (next year probably) you will look back on this and realize you dodged a bullet AND set your course that will lead you to a better man.  I'm so sorry for the pain you are undoubtedly feeling right now.  Chin up, and leave this loser!![/quote]

19:08 here. I LOVE your post. Thank you.

I am dying to ask you - have you remarried? How are your kids doing?

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